{"id":347,"date":"2023-07-14T07:02:00","date_gmt":"2023-07-14T12:02:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/orthodoxorlando.com\/legacy\/?page_id=347"},"modified":"2023-08-03T16:17:33","modified_gmt":"2023-08-03T21:17:33","slug":"your-first-visit","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/orthodoxorlando.com\/legacy\/your-first-visit\/","title":{"rendered":"Your First Visit"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Services in this Orthodox Church may be very different than you have experienced in the past. We want you to feel comfortable and very welcome, joining with us in joyful worship. We will not single you out or do anything to embarrass you. Here are a few things that may help orient you a bit to our services:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group alignwide has-global-padding is-layout-constrained wp-block-group-is-layout-constrained\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-media-text alignwide is-stacked-on-mobile\"><figure class=\"wp-block-media-text__media\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"461\" height=\"572\" src=\"https:\/\/orthodoxorlando.com\/legacy\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/Resized_Resized_20230604_093902.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-561 size-full\" srcset=\"https:\/\/orthodoxorlando.com\/legacy\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/Resized_Resized_20230604_093902.jpg 461w, https:\/\/orthodoxorlando.com\/legacy\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/Resized_Resized_20230604_093902-242x300.jpg 242w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 461px) 100vw, 461px\" \/><\/figure><div class=\"wp-block-media-text__content\">\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">God is in this place!<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>We believe that in this church, we stand in the very presence of God, and that we join the saints and heavenly hosts in joy and prayer and worship. For that reason, we try to avoid \u201cchit-chat\u201d in church, but to stand with reverent awe and attention to God.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We don\u2019t at all want to be unfriendly! We&nbsp;<em>want<\/em>&nbsp;to say \u201cHello!\u201d and to welcome you, and get to know you, and help you get to know us and about our Church! But during the actual services in church, and also before the services, as people are silently preparing to worship, we try to avoid conversation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So, during the services, please&nbsp;<em>join with us<\/em>&nbsp;in joyful and reverent prayer and worship. And after the services,&nbsp;<em>please join us<\/em>&nbsp;for conversation and have some coffee or tea and a bite to eat, where we can welcome you and try to get to know each other, and answer any questions you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>We are grateful to God for bringing you to visit us here online today &#8212; we look forward to meeting you in person!<\/em><\/p>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group alignwide has-global-padding is-layout-constrained wp-block-group-is-layout-constrained\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-media-text alignwide has-media-on-the-right is-stacked-on-mobile\" style=\"grid-template-columns:auto 44%\"><div class=\"wp-block-media-text__content\">\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">The Service Before the Service<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>The Divine Liturgy, our main Sunday Worship service, begins at 9:30am but it is preceded by two shorter prayer services, the <a href=\"https:\/\/orthodoxwiki.org\/Hours\" data-type=\"URL\" data-id=\"https:\/\/orthodoxwiki.org\/Hours\">3rd Hour and 6th Hour<\/a> (beginning at 9:10am), which may seem like you are late if you walk in at 9:30am and observe prayers already in progress, but we are used to people coming in and out so your entrance will not cause a disturbance\u2014come in and find an area to stand or sit and someone will welcome you and answer any immediate questions.<\/p>\n<\/div><figure class=\"wp-block-media-text__media\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"685\" src=\"https:\/\/orthodoxorlando.com\/legacy\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/IMG_4476-1024x685.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-553 size-full\" srcset=\"https:\/\/orthodoxorlando.com\/legacy\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/IMG_4476-1024x685.jpeg 1024w, https:\/\/orthodoxorlando.com\/legacy\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/IMG_4476-300x201.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/orthodoxorlando.com\/legacy\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/IMG_4476-768x514.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/orthodoxorlando.com\/legacy\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/IMG_4476.jpeg 1453w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-media-text alignwide is-stacked-on-mobile\" style=\"grid-template-columns:30% auto\"><figure class=\"wp-block-media-text__media\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1152\" height=\"2048\" src=\"https:\/\/orthodoxorlando.com\/legacy\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/275268520_3087536368172185_7555058929319473832_n-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-127 size-full\"\/><\/figure><div class=\"wp-block-media-text__content\">\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">We Stand to Pray<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>In the Holy Scriptures, the typical posture of prayer was standing. Jesus said, <em>\u201cAnd whenever you stand praying&#8230;\u201d <\/em>(Mark 11:25). The ancient Christian practice has always been standing to pray. Orthodox Christians traditionally hold fast to the ancient ways. By all means, those who are unable to stand may sit in the chairs along the walls. <\/p>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-media-text alignwide has-media-on-the-right is-stacked-on-mobile\"><div class=\"wp-block-media-text__content\">\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">The Sign of the Cross<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"The Sign of the Cross\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/V9OicA4W7SY?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Orthodox worship involves the whole person: the mind, the heart, the senses\u2014the entire body. We engage our bodies in prayer as we make the Sign of the Cross as an expression of our faith in the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit, and when at times we bow or make a prostration before God in repentance, humility, and worship, but there is no expectation that our visitors who are unfamiliar with these bodily forms of worship will participate. <\/p>\n<\/div><figure class=\"wp-block-media-text__media\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"347\" height=\"512\" src=\"https:\/\/orthodoxorlando.com\/legacy\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/bb5e8e4514b9bddc05de260780e5ec82-sign-of-the-cross-russian-orthodox-3270310097.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-554 size-full\" srcset=\"https:\/\/orthodoxorlando.com\/legacy\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/bb5e8e4514b9bddc05de260780e5ec82-sign-of-the-cross-russian-orthodox-3270310097.jpg 347w, https:\/\/orthodoxorlando.com\/legacy\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/bb5e8e4514b9bddc05de260780e5ec82-sign-of-the-cross-russian-orthodox-3270310097-203x300.jpg 203w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 347px) 100vw, 347px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-media-text alignwide is-stacked-on-mobile\"><figure class=\"wp-block-media-text__media\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"768\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/orthodoxorlando.com\/legacy\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/IMG_3092-768x1024.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-555 size-full\" srcset=\"https:\/\/orthodoxorlando.com\/legacy\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/IMG_3092-768x1024.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/orthodoxorlando.com\/legacy\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/IMG_3092-225x300.jpeg 225w, https:\/\/orthodoxorlando.com\/legacy\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/IMG_3092-1152x1536.jpeg 1152w, https:\/\/orthodoxorlando.com\/legacy\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/IMG_3092-1536x2048.jpeg 1536w, https:\/\/orthodoxorlando.com\/legacy\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/IMG_3092-scaled.jpeg 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><\/figure><div class=\"wp-block-media-text__content\">\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Icons<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Orthodox Christians do not worship icons! We worship God, and God alone. Many people will treat photographs of loved ones with special care, putting them in lovely frames, in a special place, etc.. It is not the paper photograph they honor, but the person in the photograph. \u201cIcon\u201d means \u201cimage,\u201d and Orthodox Christians \u201cvenerate\u201d (honor) the person represented in that image by bowing and even kissing the icon much like someone may kiss a photograph of their grandmother. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Introduction to Icons\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/iCixfrMY5ME?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group alignfull has-base-color has-contrast-background-color has-text-color has-background is-layout-flow wp-block-group-is-layout-flow\">\n<div style=\"height:70px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns alignwide are-vertically-aligned-center is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-28f84493 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:50%\">\n<p class=\"has-base-color has-text-color\" style=\"font-size:clamp(18.959px, 1.185rem + ((1vw - 3.2px) * 1.255), 30px);line-height:1.1\"><strong>The Divine Liturgy<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column has-base-color has-text-color is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:50%\">\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-text-color has-css-opacity has-background is-style-wide\" style=\"background-color:#000000;color:#000000\"\/>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns alignwide is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-28f84493 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"has-base-color has-text-color has-extra-small-font-size\">The word, \u201cliturgy\u201d comes from a Greek word meaning \u201cthe work of the people,\u201d and it refers to people gathered together, praying with one mind and one heart. Many people do not realize that the first Christians regularly prayed together in liturgical prayer. The Apostles and many of the first Christians were Jews, and were accustomed to praying in liturgical services in the Jewish Temple. St. James, for example, continued to pray in the Temple until he was martyred for Christ.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"has-base-color has-text-color has-extra-small-font-size\">The Divine Liturgy of the Orthodox Church developed over centuries as people of prayer, filled with the Holy Spirit, prayed and sang to God. The services in our church are entirely in English, so even if you are not familiar with this type of prayer and worship, you can hear and understand, and pray together with us and with the saints and angels:<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:40px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group alignwide has-global-padding is-layout-constrained wp-block-group-is-layout-constrained\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-media-text alignwide is-stacked-on-mobile\"><figure class=\"wp-block-media-text__media\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"461\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/orthodoxorlando.com\/legacy\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/5FB34FB1-34DA-499D-90A6-868FF4A74395.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-357 size-full\" srcset=\"https:\/\/orthodoxorlando.com\/legacy\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/5FB34FB1-34DA-499D-90A6-868FF4A74395.jpeg 461w, https:\/\/orthodoxorlando.com\/legacy\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/5FB34FB1-34DA-499D-90A6-868FF4A74395-135x300.jpeg 135w, https:\/\/orthodoxorlando.com\/legacy\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/5FB34FB1-34DA-499D-90A6-868FF4A74395-11x24.jpeg 11w, https:\/\/orthodoxorlando.com\/legacy\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/5FB34FB1-34DA-499D-90A6-868FF4A74395-16x36.jpeg 16w, https:\/\/orthodoxorlando.com\/legacy\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/5FB34FB1-34DA-499D-90A6-868FF4A74395-22x48.jpeg 22w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 461px) 100vw, 461px\" \/><\/figure><div class=\"wp-block-media-text__content\">\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">The Eucharist (Holy Communion)<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Orthodox Christians view the Eucharist as deeply, awesomely holy, and are mindful of St. Paul\u2019s words, \u201cWhoever, therefore, eats the bread or drinks the cup of the Lord in an unworthy manner will be guilty of profaning the body and blood of the Lord.&nbsp;Let a man examine himself, and so eat of the bread and drink of the cup.&nbsp;\u201d (<em>1 Corinthians 11:27-28<\/em>) <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><br>We know that it is not our own efforts but only God\u2019s grace that can make us worthy of Communion with Him. But to prepare and \u201cexamine ourselves\u201d before coming for Communion we fast, pray, examine our hearts and our actions and repent and confess our sins, seeking absolution from God. All are called to God\u2019s table, but please respect this ancient and venerable Christian practice, and do not come up for Communion without speaking to our priest before the services begin about appropriate preparation. <\/p>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-media-text alignwide has-media-on-the-right is-stacked-on-mobile\"><div class=\"wp-block-media-text__content\">\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">&#8220;Instead of the Gifts&#8221;<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>After one of the faithful receives communion, they will normally partake of a piece of blessed bread and will also bring pieces of this bread for those they know who are not prepared for the Eucharist. <br><br>If someone hands you a piece of bread after they have gone to Communion, this is not the Eucharist itself but is blessed bread that is given as a sign of our wish that we can one day share communion with you. The greek name for this blessed bread\u2014&#8221;antidoron&#8221;\u2014means &#8220;instead of the gifts&#8221; .<\/p>\n<\/div><figure class=\"wp-block-media-text__media\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"575\" src=\"https:\/\/orthodoxorlando.com\/legacy\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/4829583-1024x575-898633478.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-562 size-full\" srcset=\"https:\/\/orthodoxorlando.com\/legacy\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/4829583-1024x575-898633478.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/orthodoxorlando.com\/legacy\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/4829583-1024x575-898633478-300x168.jpg 300w, https:\/\/orthodoxorlando.com\/legacy\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/4829583-1024x575-898633478-768x431.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group has-global-padding is-layout-constrained wp-block-group-is-layout-constrained\">\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Why Do We Keep Asking for Mercy?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>You will hear, &#8220;Lord, have mercy&#8221; frequently in our services. To many people, \u201cmercy\u201d is what one asks for when one is about to be judged or killed, so some visitors might suppose we are cowering in fear before a vindictive or hateful God. Nothing could be farther from the truth! We know God as the Lover of Mankind, infinitely compassionate, and infinitely loving!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The original ancient Greek words translated into English as \u201cLord, have mercy,\u201d have a very different meaning than what many of us today tend to think of in their English translation:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>The word mercy in English is the translation of the Greek word&nbsp;<em>eleos<\/em>. This word has the same ultimate root as the old Greek word for oil, or more precisely, olive oil; a substance which was used extensively as a soothing agent for bruises and minor wounds. The oil was poured onto the wound and gently massaged in, thus soothing, comforting and making whole the injured part. The Hebrew word which is also translated as eleos and mercy is&nbsp;<em>hesed<\/em>, and means steadfast love. The Greek words for \u201cLord, have mercy,\u201d are \u201c<em>Kyrie, eleison<\/em>\u201d that is to say, \u201cLord, soothe me, comfort me, take away my pain, show me your steadfast love.\u201d Thus mercy does not refer so much to justice or acquittal, a very Western interpretation, but to the infinite loving-kindness of God, and his compassion for his suffering children! It is in this sense that we pray \u201cLord, have mercy,\u201d with great frequency throughout the Divine Liturgy.<\/p>\n<cite>Adapted from the book,&nbsp;<em>Orthodox Worship,<\/em>&nbsp;quoted here:&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.goarch.org\/-\/kyrie-eleison-lord-have-mercy\">Kyrie Eleison, Lord Have Mercy<\/a>.<\/cite><\/blockquote>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-media-text alignwide is-stacked-on-mobile\"><figure class=\"wp-block-media-text__media\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"768\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/orthodoxorlando.com\/legacy\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/IMG_2497-1-768x1024.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-594 size-full\" srcset=\"https:\/\/orthodoxorlando.com\/legacy\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/IMG_2497-1-768x1024.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/orthodoxorlando.com\/legacy\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/IMG_2497-1-225x300.jpeg 225w, https:\/\/orthodoxorlando.com\/legacy\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/IMG_2497-1-1152x1536.jpeg 1152w, https:\/\/orthodoxorlando.com\/legacy\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/IMG_2497-1-1536x2048.jpeg 1536w, https:\/\/orthodoxorlando.com\/legacy\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/IMG_2497-1-scaled.jpeg 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><\/figure><div class=\"wp-block-media-text__content\">\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-text-align-center\">Children<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Children are very welcome in God\u2019s house! \u201cLet the children come to me; do not hinder them, for to such belongs the kingdom of God.\u201d (Mk 10:14)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If children become so restless or loud that they are disturbing others\u2019 prayer and worship, their parents may briefly escort them outside. In general, we try to avoid disrupting Divine Worship by coming and going, but this must be tempered with love, and small children may need for loving parents to take them out, briefly, and to return when they are able to do so.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Read more at <a href=\"https:\/\/orthodoxorlando.com\/legacy\/families-at-sjtm\/\">Families at SJTM<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-media-text alignwide has-media-on-the-right is-stacked-on-mobile\"><div class=\"wp-block-media-text__content\">\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Dress<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Some people like to wear their very best. Others choose less formal clothing. In general, clothing in church should be modest, clean and unobtrusive. There is a wide variety of clothing styles in our church, and we want you to feel welcome and comfortable.<\/p>\n<\/div><figure class=\"wp-block-media-text__media\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"576\" src=\"https:\/\/orthodoxorlando.com\/legacy\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/With-Fr.-Nicholas-Wyborski-1024x576.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-358 size-full\" srcset=\"https:\/\/orthodoxorlando.com\/legacy\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/With-Fr.-Nicholas-Wyborski-1024x576.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/orthodoxorlando.com\/legacy\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/With-Fr.-Nicholas-Wyborski-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/orthodoxorlando.com\/legacy\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/With-Fr.-Nicholas-Wyborski-768x432.jpg 768w, https:\/\/orthodoxorlando.com\/legacy\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/With-Fr.-Nicholas-Wyborski-1536x864.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/orthodoxorlando.com\/legacy\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/With-Fr.-Nicholas-Wyborski-24x14.jpg 24w, https:\/\/orthodoxorlando.com\/legacy\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/With-Fr.-Nicholas-Wyborski-36x20.jpg 36w, https:\/\/orthodoxorlando.com\/legacy\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/With-Fr.-Nicholas-Wyborski-48x27.jpg 48w, https:\/\/orthodoxorlando.com\/legacy\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/With-Fr.-Nicholas-Wyborski.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">12 Things I Wish I&#8217;d Known (Before my First Visit to an Orthodox Church)<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/frederica.com\/12-things\/\">12 Things I wish I&#8217;d known.&nbsp;.&nbsp;.<\/a>, written by Frederica Mathewes-Green, a beloved Orthodox author, is also a very helpful resource for a first visit to an Orthodox church.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-28f84493 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"769\" src=\"https:\/\/orthodoxorlando.com\/legacy\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/A2586CB7-D67E-47FE-BB4C-DBF795C2EB71_1_105_c.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-364\" srcset=\"https:\/\/orthodoxorlando.com\/legacy\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/A2586CB7-D67E-47FE-BB4C-DBF795C2EB71_1_105_c.jpeg 1024w, https:\/\/orthodoxorlando.com\/legacy\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/A2586CB7-D67E-47FE-BB4C-DBF795C2EB71_1_105_c-300x225.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/orthodoxorlando.com\/legacy\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/A2586CB7-D67E-47FE-BB4C-DBF795C2EB71_1_105_c-768x577.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/orthodoxorlando.com\/legacy\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/A2586CB7-D67E-47FE-BB4C-DBF795C2EB71_1_105_c-24x18.jpeg 24w, https:\/\/orthodoxorlando.com\/legacy\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/A2586CB7-D67E-47FE-BB4C-DBF795C2EB71_1_105_c-36x27.jpeg 36w, https:\/\/orthodoxorlando.com\/legacy\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/A2586CB7-D67E-47FE-BB4C-DBF795C2EB71_1_105_c-48x36.jpeg 48w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Placeholder image from Sts Peter and Paul Orthodox Church in South River, NJ<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Coffee Hour: The Liturgy after the Liturgy<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>At the end of the Divine Liturgy, there are a few announcements and brief post-communion prayers, then we host a shared meal we refer to as &#8220;coffee hour&#8221; but it&#8217;s always more than coffee and always more than an hour! If you&#8217;re visiting, please stay and share our hospitality. We would love to welcome you and get to know you. Many friendships are formed during coffee hour conversations, and kids have a chance to run out some of the pent-up energy from the service. Even if you can only stay for a few minutes, Fr. David would love to greet you personally before you leave.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"768\" src=\"https:\/\/orthodoxorlando.com\/legacy\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/397211E8-3809-4E9F-A2C2-F1F5A6272CEF_1_105_c.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-363\" srcset=\"https:\/\/orthodoxorlando.com\/legacy\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/397211E8-3809-4E9F-A2C2-F1F5A6272CEF_1_105_c.jpeg 1024w, https:\/\/orthodoxorlando.com\/legacy\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/397211E8-3809-4E9F-A2C2-F1F5A6272CEF_1_105_c-300x225.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/orthodoxorlando.com\/legacy\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/397211E8-3809-4E9F-A2C2-F1F5A6272CEF_1_105_c-768x576.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/orthodoxorlando.com\/legacy\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/397211E8-3809-4E9F-A2C2-F1F5A6272CEF_1_105_c-24x18.jpeg 24w, https:\/\/orthodoxorlando.com\/legacy\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/397211E8-3809-4E9F-A2C2-F1F5A6272CEF_1_105_c-36x27.jpeg 36w, https:\/\/orthodoxorlando.com\/legacy\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/397211E8-3809-4E9F-A2C2-F1F5A6272CEF_1_105_c-48x36.jpeg 48w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Placeholder image from St. Vladimir&#8217;s Orthodox Seminary<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Services in this Orthodox Church may be very different than you have experienced in the past. We want you to feel comfortable and very welcome, joining with us in joyful worship. We will not single you out or do anything to embarrass you. 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